As its acts make the weary trek up to Edinburgh, the Oxford Comedy Fest wraps up for another year, and for its last audience in the Trinity Beer Cellar, the closing acts brought things to a happy, if a little rough-around-the-edges, denouement. It’s a first trip to the cellar for this reviewer, and one I hope to repeat, lending things a more underground, informal feel that benefited the work-in-progress nature of each hour (and kept plenty well-oiled by Trinity’s hardworking bar staff).
Don’t sip those beers too loudly though, because we kick off with Dr. Jane Gregory and Steve Hall’s If You Loved Me, You’d Breathe Quietly. Gregory has been diagnosed with misophonia, a strong aversion to repetitive sounds like chewing, tapping or rustling - a tricky tightrope to walk when married to someone who, to quote their son, “eats like a disgusting pig” (Hall). The strings are more visible for this hour, with the two holding scripts throughout, but the easy back-and-forth between the pair already shines through; part of the fun is watching Hall ad-lib a risky line or groanworthy pun and search Gregory’s face for her reaction.
At the core of the show is an appeal to hear other people’s perspectives in order to inform your own, and the pair’s different styles of comedy play well off each other to get that across. They both definitely get pretty graphic at points, like Hall describing how one aspect of their newborn son’s anatomy got him labelled ‘Spacehopper’ among the midwives, or a line about Gregory’s vagina that she probably wouldn’t have included had she known her research students would be in attendance.
But Gregory’s more personal, confessional delivery adds to the earnestness of her story, as she explains what led to her diagnosis, how to manage it, and the preconceptions and misunderstandings she’s encountered (including, sometimes, from herself). Hall’s more barbed, satirical style, meanwhile, is perfect for skewering the absurd societal roadblocks people with conditions like Gregory’s experience; right-wing pundits who insist “you wouldn’t have misophonia during the Blitz” (tell that to Churchill); talk shows that drive away the curious by deliberately playing triggering sounds when discussing misophonia;or an underfunded NHS that’s led to a reliance on self-diagnosis in order to gain answers.
Comedy is often a mean place, and there are many commentators today longing for a time when it was meaner. But much of comedy is at its core about subverting expectations, something that we also have to do if we’re ever going to practice empathy well. From Hall’s incorrect diagnosis of an audience member with a beeping bag to Gregory’s reevaluation of how to manage her symptoms after listening to her kids, it’s the ways people can surprise you that make you move through the world with more sensitivity, even as they make you laugh - whatever this hour grows into, it’s a great message to impart, and one that’s already connecting with an audience that hadn’t yet put a name to their experience.
Sara Barron in the second-half is, well, less heartwarming - and that is not a complaint. Her gleefully foul-mouthed set is packed with quicksilver wit, scarily perceptive crowdwork and some absolutely cracking writing. It’s a shame Edinburgh will be retiring its Funniest Joke of the Fringe competition this year, because “what’s your husband’s favourite position? Foetal.”, blows a lot of recent winners out of the water.
Barron dives right into the inky depths of dark humour and rarely, if ever, needs to come up for air. Highlights include her toxic codependent relationship with Netflix’s ‘Because You Watched’ algorithm, a skit that pokes fun at the thorny ethics of enjoying true crime while never coming off holier-than-thou - we’re all in the gutter here. So too with her humble suggestion of a second lanyard to go alongside the Hidden Disabilities sunflower, the ‘c*nt’ lanyard’, since, despite what certain disgraced authors and celebrity chefs would have you believe, being the former is not an excuse for the latter.
There were moments where I thought we could be leaning into more conventional territory; the ‘competent wife putting up with slightly gormless husband’ schtick is something that could get old fast in the wrong hands. It’s testament to the strength of Barron’s writing that she can take this fairly established trope and make it fizz, bonding with the couples in the crowd with the worldly, no-nonsense delivery of a bartender everyone can share their troubles with.
In its current form, it’s petering off a little at the end, but what’s there is gold; it just needs to be mined a little further. My only advice, as the second row quickly discovered - maybe don’t make this one a family trip.
That’s it for this year’s Oxford Comedy Festival - whether you’re following the acts up to Edinburgh or waiting for next July to roll around, keep supporting local comedy wherever you find it! Check out QED’s website for their regular events.